Posts by Heavy Hearted

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Marage in trouble,

by Heavy Hearted in

hi have a problem and am in need of help.

long story short my wife was one when we met, then she quit to be with me, now she has recently started to witnessing again.

and our marage has suffered extreamly because of it.

Thank you all for the encourageing words, never mind the spelling as I have been told miss spelling is a sign of bigger thingking, meaning too much on my mind. My dad this weekend told me I should give her an altamaidem(sp), which I think is the wrong move, I would rather not give in to the watch tower, and show my wife that she has been misled, what are any of your thoughts on this? My daughter is the MOST important thing in my life, I too have felt like I am fighting a losing battel and want to just leave, but I can't for my daughters sake. any child growing up with out a father is a travisty.

I talked to my wife and reliterated that I want my daughter to have nothing to do with any religion until she is old enough to make her own decisions.

and for everyone woundering why I was asked to not attend their the bible studies the last question I was alowed to ask was, " in reference to Gen.3 1:8 the serpent enticing eve to eat the fruit, and gain the knowege of good and evil. Are you not giving this same information to the followers of JW "the information of good and evil"?, does that not make you the serpent? and the non-JW Eve?"

I was told they didn't know the answer to that question and would get back to me. my wife told me they would rather me not be around when they studied, because I was deturing from the real mesage of the TRUTH.

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Marage in trouble,

by Heavy Hearted in

hi have a problem and am in need of help.

long story short my wife was one when we met, then she quit to be with me, now she has recently started to witnessing again.

and our marage has suffered extreamly because of it.

Heavy Hearted

If there is anything that I can say to help her start to question where she is that would be great, I have brougt up a lot of things but anything helps.

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Marage in trouble,

by Heavy Hearted in

hi have a problem and am in need of help.

long story short my wife was one when we met, then she quit to be with me, now she has recently started to witnessing again.

and our marage has suffered extreamly because of it.

Heavy Hearted

no one in her family is a JW, and are losing patience with her as well, asfar as preaching to them. we have had discutions on the lies they teach and the scandals around them, we don't get into bitter fights or anything, I just get frustrated listening to her "coined" responses, and eventualy give up for a while.

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Marage in trouble,

by Heavy Hearted in

hi have a problem and am in need of help.

long story short my wife was one when we met, then she quit to be with me, now she has recently started to witnessing again.

and our marage has suffered extreamly because of it.

Heavy Hearted

I am hoping that I do not have to end the marage, my doughter does not attend any meetings or service work, with the exception that she is at home during her "bible studies". I have been to meetings with her, I have studied with her, I don't buy into as a thinking person, I have been asked not to attend "bible stuies" by her JW friends, for the reason that I ask to many questions, and instigate to many debates (not arguments). I refuse to let this change in her life destroy my doughters.

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Marage in trouble,

by Heavy Hearted in

hi have a problem and am in need of help.

long story short my wife was one when we met, then she quit to be with me, now she has recently started to witnessing again.

and our marage has suffered extreamly because of it.

Heavy Hearted

Hi have a problem and am in need of help.

Long story short my wife was one when we met, then she quit to be with me, now she has recently started to witnessing again. and our marage has suffered extreamly because of it. given I was rased catholic, and don't agree with her thoughts. but my main concern is not with our marage it is with our 2 year old doughter. I am not sure how long our marage will last but I haave been sticking it out for the last year for our doughter. but I am starting to get to the end of my wits. any encouraging words?

Thanks,